Gay signaling
How the Art of Signaling Is Changing
Elysian Park is one of the scant public parks in Los Angeles that continues to possess a strong cruising culture. Gay men hang out there despite–or maybe because of–a nearby police shooting range. “[You’ll be] within earshot of the shooting range, hooking up, and then you’ll hear pistols entity fired,” says L.A.-based artist Dino Dinco, who has made the park a subject of his photographs. “To me “¦ maybe I’m just juvenile, but I love these kinds of connections.”
Police around the United States still regularly manner sting operations in gay cruising grounds, often pretending to seduce the men there in request to entrap them. The stings are a hangover from an era when gay sex was still illegal in the country. Dinco says queer men are easy targets, and are especially vulnerable to systemic forms of force when cruising in public places appreciate parks.
Speaking to gay men from all over the planet for this piece, I heard again and again how they came of age knowing that to be visibly gay in universal was to be in danger. Still, they discovered ways to find each other. The codes varied from place to
Secret Signals: How Some Men Cruise for Sex
Aug. 28, 2007 — -- While many Americans may only be vaguely familiar with the idea of "cruising," there is a secret world of sex between men that exists in public places across the country.
The police officer who arrested Sen. Larry Craig, R-Idaho, in a men's restroom at the Minneapolis airport for allegedly looking to engage in gay sex wrote in his June state that he "recognized a signal used by persons wishing to engage in lewd conduct."
Craig tapped his foot up and down and swiped his hand underneath the bathroom stall in which the undercover cop was sitting, according to the police report.
Those actions led to Craig's arrest by Detective Dave Karsnia and the senator's guilty plea to a disorderly conduct charge. Craig told reporters today that he did nothing inappropriate and said his guilty plea was a mistake.
Public places like men's restrooms, in airports and train stations, truck stops, university libraries and parks, have long been places where gay and bisexual men, particularly those in the closet, congregate in order to encounter for anonymous sex.
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Pride is always something to shout about. Picnics, parades and festivals will get place throughout June and over the summer months, a colour explosion of progressive pride flags and fashion marking the occasion. This year however there’s an extra reason to celebrate, with 2022 marking fifty years since the first UK Event march in London in 1972. An outward and widespread celebration of Diverse rights, Pride is about being noticeable, celebrating and reflecting on the achievements and challenges faced by the society over the years.
This public display of identity and treasure is now an annual event in the summer calendar, but such overt visibility hasn’t always been possible, or legal, or harmless. At a second when public perspective towards the society was overwhelmingly aggressive and the legal system declared their love as criminal behaviour, many Queer people hid their identity in plain sight through symbolism and coding. A grassroots set of ‘secret symbols’ was developed, subtle enough to go relatively unnoticed by those who would look for to cause impair but instantly recognised within the people. A design language created by and for LGBTQ+ people,
Fifty Shades of Gay – The Hanky Code
Fetishes fascinate me.Actually, it’s not the particular fetish that I find interesting, but more the journey of self-discovery that leads a person towards a particular fetish.For example, there is a fetish known as Tamakeri (Japanese translation: ball kicking) Yep, it’s just what it sounds like; the erotic pleasure of creature kicked in the nuts.Uh… that’s a ‘hard pass’ for me, but I have questions.
How does a person with an erotic paraphilia (a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities) discover these desires? What was their “A-ha” moment? When does a man realize that he derives sexual stimulation and satisfaction from getting smashed in the balls? Was it a poor bounce on the playground? An unfortunate ricochet on the tennis court? And once a man discovers that hammering his nut-sack turns him on, how does he find others who share this very specific inclination towards CBT (cock and ball torture)? Inquiring minds want to know.
Fetishism today has grow commonplace enough to be considered cocktail chatter. We’ve been spoiled by the internet, which has taken the mystery out of almos